Still Standing Tribe

Together We Can Stand Through Anything

  • Live Courageously

    Fear is a powerful emotion; one that keeps you from being all you were meant to become. You can learn to stand up to your fears so they no longer control you.

  • Find Purpose

    Everybody is here for a reason. YOU are here for reasons that go far beyond your heartbreak, pain, or disappointment. Your legacy matters, and it is being created right now.

  • Stand Together

    Something powerful happens when warriors stand together (and sometimes fall and cry together). You are not alone! Link arms with us.

  • Build Confidence

    Shame, guilt, disappointment, and bad choices keep you from believing in yourself. Valerie's coaching and the Tribe connection will help you build confidence.

Through the devastation of losing my only daughter, Jamie, over and over, to the addiction Beast, and ultimately to a senseless murder, I have learned how to stand up and fight for happiness, peace, hope, and purpose in the most difficult circumstances imaginable.


I use my journey of overcoming devastating loss, paralyzing fear, shame, guilt, betrayal, and more, along with decades of experience teaching and training, to empower you to stand up and fight for your life.


I believe anyone can (and should) overcome anything that his holding them back. I can show you how to do just that! Fight as if your life depends on it, because it does.


"VALERIE SILVEIRA is a woman of unwavering strength who uses her battle scars to help others find their courage."

"Joining the Tribe might be the best thing you ever do for yourself."

Member Benefits

    Included with Membership:

    Monthly Live Coaching

    Coaching Recap & Homework

    Tribe Boot Camp Course
    Access to the Past Coaching Library



    What Members are Saying

    Annelle Abernethy

    Through the Still Standing Tribe, Valerie teaches us to stand up & fight. I have learned that I can live with joy and peace, and that I have a purpose. I am thankful for Valerie's heart for all of us.

    Jeri Griess

    I didn’t want to be sad and miserable all the time, and walk around like a zombie just going through the motions of life. I found Valerie & the Still Standing Tribe, I now  I immerse myself in my recovery.

    Sarah Earle

    These are life-changing and life-saving resources. Do yourself a favor and join the Still Standing Tribe, and soon you will be picking up the pieces of your broken heart.

    Monette Hopkins

    I was in sabotage mode & didn't think I deserved better. Thank God for Valerie.  I no longer feel self-pity. And, I bring The Tribe into my therapy. My therapists said, ‘I have seen such a change in you; You took a stand back in August, and you haven't stopped!

    Dawn Ward

    Thank you for your sacrifice for each and every one of us. I can’t tell you what it’s been like to be a witness to watching your strength, your love and graciousness. Thank you so much for the Tribe and thank you for caring enough about us to persevere.

    Dianne Chatelain

    I was on a video conference with the Still Standing Tribe when my son walked into the room and came over to the computer and told the ladies, "thank you for giving me my mom back." I knew my family could see a difference in me, and I have come a long way since that moment.

    Frequently asked questions

    I go to counseling, so why would I need this Coaching Membership?

    Can I talk to Valerie directly?

    How is this different from support meetings I already attend?

    How does billing work?

    What is the biggest benefit to being a Tribe Coaching member?

    Do I have to join the private Facebook group?

    What if I have questions after I become a coaching member?

    Will my membership price increase over time?

    Time is flying by. Don't wait another day to start Living Courageously!